
Monday, July 25, 2011
Xiao's Books
The picture above shows the books I made. I used green paper to act as a cover because I love this color. I cut the paper into two pieces ,one is smaller and one is bigger so that I could make two books and send one to my boyfriend Li Heng. I made them simple because we all like that style, what's more there are many papers inside so that we will have more space to write our love story. On each book writes a name with the use of letter sticker, which of course stands for me and Heng. On one book it says "care", on the other one says"today". I put these two words on my books trying to show I really want us to treasure each other's care ,and value every "today" we have together.
As you can see, it's really simple inside, but I'm sure we will make it more and more colourful as the time goes on. On the cover, there's a letter X which shorts for my name Xiao. I like the picture most, which was taken when our first time went out travelling together. Whenever I see it, beautiful memories will come into my mind.
Maybe it's not easy to notice. On the bottom of the left cover side, there's a letter L, which is short for my boyfriend's family name Li.
I love the blue paper with the beautiful flowers on it very much, so I put them into the books. By the way, have you noticed the stickers? It says: “Our love will last forever."
Although the books are simple and seem nothing special ,I bet Li Heng will like them. ^_^ Do you agree with me?
Homero´s Books
My firsts three days in Munich
The Flight from Italy to Greece
-I can’t understand you. Do you speak Italian or English?
-Yeah. The girl answer. What’s your name? where are you from?
-I’m from
-Xenita. She said..
-Are you from
-No.I’m from
Pablo and Xenita staied there for one more hour. They had an intresting discussion. They were trying to learn as more as they can for themselves. Then Xenita asked him if he found a hotel. He answered:
-No. I was looking for 3 hours and all hotels were full.
She suggested him to go to her house.Pablo asked her if she staied alone and she answer :
- I’m with my parents.
Then he refused to go with her, but Xenita insisted and finally Pablo slept at Xenita’s house.
Xenita’s parents didn’t have any problem. They were outgoing and hospitable people Next day Pablo and Xenita went a walk. They visited some interesting places of
Pablo loved Albanian food.
He had arranged to live that day but Xenita said to him to stay more. Xenita like him and his company.
They had become really good friends. Pablo didn’t want to sleep again at Xenita’s home and found a hotel. Xenita’s mother called him for a dinner next night since he liked their food. She cooked three traditional Albanian dishes. Pablo loved them too.
Pablo staid only for three days more and then he left. Before leaving, he invited Xenita to visited him next month. Xenita said:
- Of course, I want come.
Dances at a local dancing Festival in Italy
They didn’t stopped had friendship. They were talking on the phone or through Internet. They visited again each other. They are still friends and next month they are going to visit
Military life without a freedom

< These pictures were taken when I was in training right after I had finished military service. >
I could expect my military life was going to be tough because lots of people always say to me, I won't endure kind of insult from senior soldiers. However, my expectation was totally wrong! Military service was tougher than I thought.At that time I, as well as in verbal abuse and profanity, was beaten by senior soldiers. Also, they forced me to start smoking. That's why I started smoking, but now, I quit. Nobody can act differently, nobody respects me as an indivisual in army.
It was certain that there was no freedom, only I had to do was following orders from senior soldiers in the army! Only then, I realized how precious freedom was in our daily life.Before I became a soldier, I didn't know the cultural difference between our daily lives and lives in army. Here is my experience.
One day, I participated in training that took 3 days to prepare for war. Although first day was not so hard, second day was different due to walking through the mountain, our destination's distance was more than 40km. Prior to departure, my seniors made their soldier's gear lighter by giving me some of their items to carry instead.

< I was a trainer in the army who taught soldiers how to fight well or how to behave during the war. >
However, I couldn't say it's unfair, for the reason that I already knew if I said sonething like this, I was supposed to be beaten or insulted. Before long, this made me tired, and I couldn't walk well because it was too heavy for me.
Furthermore, seniors walked so fast, so the gap between us started to get bigger.Then, seniors who walked in front of me came back to me and started to insult me. They said, I had to complete this training without any kind of help from others. If not, I got a punishment or discipline. After that I really tried to be fast, but I twisted my ankle. So, I thought that I couldn't afford to walk anymore.
However, it was true that I hurt my legs, seniors didn't trust me but just thought that it was fake. Even if I explained this, they started to hit me rather than helping me. They even insulted my parents. There was nothing for me to do except accepting the reality, because if I disobeyed or fought with them, I'll be put in jail, but I didn't want to go to jail in the army. A soldier who went to jail regarded as a prisoner in our society.

In our daily lives, we have lots of options to choose something. Also, no one can ignore rights to select or make our own lives by ourselves. But, Korean army has very different culture. Korean soldiers have to follow order, not to act autonomously. A soldier is like a robot which was operated by a senior. It means that there is no freedom or autonomy in Korean army.Just compare with your daily life.
Have you ever experienced this kind of thing? Can you imagine like this life? Maybe not. Throughout this experience, I learned importance of freedom and autonomy.


< I really feel free when I look up the sky and drink a beer. These pictures symbolizes a freedom for me.>
In conclusion, I'd like to say this.
Past is history, and tomorrow is a mystery. But, today is a gift.That's whay it's called present. So, For me, today is a present when we can behave, think, feel freely!




